OPTIMISM: DOES IT REALLY HELP?



‘Stop all that boring talk, let’s look at this realistically’... ‘That might be how you are wishing it’ll turn out, but this is real life’... ‘We’re not in a fairy tale...’.

Need more be exampled? Optimism, a term that can be easily construed to mean a blind approach to the realities of life, or a tendency to see only the good in every situation – misconstrued actually. Optimism in two words could be – positive outlook.


Flowers against the sky


Being positive doesn’t necessarily mean closing ones eyes to the situation that one is in. Acknowledging the situation is in fact, a part of it. What is rather different is that the optimist doesn’t resign themselves to the situation but is conditioned to believe that there is a remedy, which is usually true. Trying to and eventually seeing not always the good, but usually ways to bring out a good out of a bad situation.

Is it really helpful? Is it worth the attempting? That you’ll have  to decide for yourself.
 

Morning sun and grass


    Better performance
Optimists are more likely to keep at a problem till it is solved, hence they tend to perform better due to a resilient mindset and confidence in themselves and their abilities. Giving up at every roadblock doesn’t really bring results.


    Better general health
Studies show that optimists are generally healthier than pessimists. Having fewer cardiovascular problems, lower stress levels and better cholesterol readings.



    Live happier lives
Optimists have a higher level of satisfaction than pessimists. In jobs, businesses, relationships and other facets of life, they tend to be happier and more satisfied.


      Recover better
In cases of untoward occurrences and experiences such as accidents, loss, heartbreak et cetera. Optimists show better recovery and lesser tendencies to depression.

Picture of dawn


These are a summarised few of the many research-proven benefits of optimism. As this is all what science, or rather, what studies are saying, I’ll relate a very brief experience.

“A long time ago, I was stuck on a question in a Mathematics examination. I was almost getting scared as I had wanted to reduce my failed questions. I kept at it knowing that I’d eventually figure it out. Long story short, I failed the question but I was happy I tried”

Please share your own funny experiences and even more importantly, what you think of optimism.

21 comments

  1. Nice one sir
    You are no 1 of all the optimists I knew back then in school.
    Optimists are always happy, always with a smiley face and tends to be super cute

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  2. Optimist live happier than ever, they recover quickly, I am a testimony to that. I won't forget how I struggled with one physics question hoping to get the answer, in the end I got the steps correct but my answer was wrong, I was so happy that at least I tried and it wasn't all in vain

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  3. Nice one Bob but I'll have to say am not surprised you always deliver so keep it up bro πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

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    1. Thank you very much... I appreciate it

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  4. Hmmmm... I guess I should be glad that am an optimist
    Nice one bro

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  5. To live life to it's and really do, you don't have another option than to be optimistic. Optimists make it real good.
    Thanks dear for your wonderful pieces. Looming forward for some more, soonest.

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  6. ....life to the full.....,
    looking forward to........
    Sorry for the typo errors please.

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    1. No problem at all sir... Thank you so much for sharing πŸ™πŸΎ

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  7. You have said it all.
    Dare to be optimistic.

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